We are delighted to share with you our Sugar Daddy story. We have been talking to some of our SugarDaters® users and some of them were very happy to share their experience. The name has been changed to keep our sugar daddy anonymity.
Casper is a sugar daddy, “I have six sugar babes’
Casper pays for everything for his sugar babes. And in return he gets the affection and attention of these females. But I’s not only gold that glitters. “Because of my appearance, I’m not very popular. Now I am dating beautiful girls.”
Casper (32) is a sugar daddy. With a top job at an oil company, he is not shy about money, but the love did not quite do the trick yet. In his own words, he has a rather small stature and red hair. “I’m realistic: I’m not the picture that most women are looking for. That’s why I ended up two years ago in the sugar dating world. I don’t have a wife or children and have been a bachelor all my life. Finances play the most important role for me. I see myself as a grown man with experience of life, which has complete control over his life and economy and I want to share these opportunities that life gave me with an attractive lady, “he says. Casper uses the site www.sugardaters.co.uk and he prefers women over 23 years old. It is important for him that those women are not students, not because he doesn’t want to pay their tuition fees, but because “they are less drama queens, and have other interesting goals in life than just having an educational degree” he says.
Thousand of pounds
“For my work I travel a lot to Norway, Denmark and Sweden. At the moment I have six sugar babes, one in the UK, one in Norway, one in Sweden and three in Denmark.
It varies how much money I spend with each of them, but on average on a date is between two hundred and five hundred pounds. The ladies never get paid in cash. For example the lady in Norway loves beautiful new clothes; what woman does not? “jokes Casper in between. “The lady in Sweden, I help with her rent. The ladies in Denmark have different tastes; one of them I like to take her along with me on vacation, one loves clothes and the other one likes to take care of herself so she gets spa packages weekly. The British lady can not get enough of jewelry. “Most of what Casper has ever spent on a date was around a thousand pounds. It was a full evening of theater, dinner, drinks, hotel stay including room service and finally a spa treatment.
“The ladies in question give me something for my money back: companionship. Because of my appearance (red hair, very thin and small in stature) I’m just not very popular among the ladies. Now they always claim that it is the inside that matters until they meet me. Appearance means a lot also to women even though they claim otherwise, and also what’s “downstairs also matters. Many of my friends have attractive girlfriends, or they are being successful in pubs. I’ve never had this luxury, but still: sometimes every man wants to be able to date a beautiful girl. Sex doesn’t automatically belongs on a date, in fact, I feel offended if the lady in question assumes that sleeping with me is a ‘must’. If she brings up the sex topic too soon, then it’s over for me. My worst experience took place when I met a new sugar babe, she chose to do the date in a hotel bar, and she asked within 10 minutes if she was suppose to sleep with me. I felt cheap and insulted. ”
The pros and cons
“My best experience was when I went on vacation with one of the girls to New York. She had never been there and it has always been a dream for her to go there.
To see the look of joy on her face the first time when we were on Time Square and the first time we walked on Broadway…That look of pure gratitude: that was my best experience. However, it remains somewhat depressing occasionally with your nose pressed to the fact that the ladies do it for the ‘benefits’ and not for you as a person. It sometimes gives me a bad feeling, but when I think of the fact that I’ve been alone my entire life, it still beats that.
It doesn’t bother me that they’re not in it for love, I still get attention in return. Everybody needs somebody.
” In love with my sugarbabe ”
“I am starting to have more and more troubles that it’s only about the money for them. Now that I am totally crazy about one of the girls I am dating, I prefer to only date her and not see the rest anymore, I meet her the most. She is so fun to hang around with and her interests are exactly the ones I am looking for in a lady. But she is a sugar babe that sees several sugar daddies… I didn’t dare to ask just yet if I am the one most special from all of them. But maybe when the situation makes me frustrated enough I’ll give up and ask her. Of course I’d like to start a family and have children, but for now I like meeting different girls in different cities. It’s time and time again and adventure. I don’t want to let go of this just yet but deep inside I hope there is a sugar babe willing to stay with me for who I am.”
Fellow colleague sugar mama
Because Casper has a leading role at his job, nobody in his close surroundings knows except for one person. “ I have a female colleague who is a sugar mama. One day at work walked past her computer while she was at the toilet and I saw on her laptop the same website that I use. So during a company party I took her aside and asked her about her experiences. We respect each other’s choices and we like to talk about our sugar dating adventures during those company parties. When there are other people around us, we refer to it as just a regular dating site. But nobody know that we are actually dating people that are younger than us for financial support.
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